Gaming Bf & Long distance relationship?

I have a bf that I love. We're young (21) and we've been together for about 2 1/2 years. We've gone through different things and have broken up in the past but this time I just don't know what to do. It seems like if it isn't on thing, it's another. I recently moved about 400 miles away and I don't see or talk to him as often as I would like. We don't talk on the weekdays because we have conflicting work hours and the weekends I have no idea what hes doing. But when I travel out there to spend time with him (which is about once a month or less) he'll get on the game almost all night. I hate it because we hardly see each other and who knows when we'll see eachother next. We don't go anywhere and I would play but he plays online with his friends. He'd rather play the game all night. I asked him to come and visit me because I'm tired of always making the effort abd he told me that he wasn't going to be able to because he works. But...a game comes out a week before his b'day and he took the whole week off to play the game!!! But he never mentioned taking off to come and see me. We have hopes of getting married but he hasn't saved up for a ring. He outs all his money into his car and games. Is saving $15 a week from every paycheck for a couple of years that hard? But when he wants a game, he can't wait and buys it no matter how much it costs. He'll go broke buying games. What should I do????